CHHAPTER 14:A FATHER THAT STOOD HIS GROUND ( A WEAKNESS CALLED LOVE :MEMOIRS OF AN AFRICAN HOUSEMAID )
Meanwhile preparations are being made for Hajara's wedding. She had not conceded and had not withdrawn the threat of suicide, but her father would not back down. The "Yayi"(anko, ashoebi, a cloth of the same kind worn by women during a ceremony ) was out and my mother bought me one. The wedding was the next day. The bride had been crying relentlessly, vowing to kill herself if the wedding ever happened. The mother of the bride was gloomy and concerned. She had begged and wept but to no avail. On the wedding day we went to Hajara's house with gloomy faces. It felt as if we were attending her funeral. She refused to get dressed and continued crying. Her mother told Malam Sadi of her refusal to get dressed to which He only said "it is better to go to the grave looking beautiful not smelling like a cows dung and looking like an old hag. At least people will remember a pretty face. " She finally got dressed after a lot of persuasion. But she refused...